Q: Can guys tell if a girl is faking an orgasm? If so, would it really bother him?
A: Guys can absolutely tell if a girl is faking an orgasm. It’s different in every way. Girls just don’t act the same way when they fake it, there is something un-definable about it. It’s just different.
I wouldn’t be upset though. It sounds bad, but if the girl is faking it, she probably isn’t that into it, so there is no reason for me to try and get her into it. So when that happens, it becomes about me.
Q: When and why would a guy fake an orgasm?
A: Guys fake orgasms rarely. But it does happen. It only happens when we are incredibly bored, tired, or drunk. Sometimes, while drunk, its just impossible to get off, and faking it and going to sleep seems like such a better idea.
Q: Are blow-jobs from girls with tongue rings better than without?
A: I have had a blowjob from a girl with a tongue ring. I didn’t really notice a difference.
Q: How much porn do guys normally watch? Does it really turn them on? And would it be a turn on if girls were into it?
A: Guys watch a lot of porn. Of course it turns them on! And yes, girls who are into porn makes everything so much better. There is just so many possibilities when girls are into porn that can be incorporated into your sex life.
Q: Are Guys interested in hearing about girls’ periods or are they totally grossed out? How much do they really know?
A: We’ve all taken health classes in grade 9, so we know what a period entails. If a guy says he doesn’t know what the deal is, it’s because he doesn’t want to hear about it.
It’s more because we have no frame of reference. We understand periods in theory. Once a month, bleeding is involved, etcetera. Other than that, we’ve got nothing. If it’s a “heavy day”, we really don’t know what that means. We can guess, but we’d rather not.
General rule: Let your boyfriend know, but not your guy friends.
Q: What is a slut? Do guys want to know the number of guys a girl has slept with?
A: The only time the word actually applies (and is not used out of malice) is when a girl sleeps around without being responsible about it. A girl with more than just the accidental STI: probably a slut. A girl that sleeps with several members of a social group (without extenuating circumstances): probably a slut. Quantity certainly plays a role, but isn’t necessarily the only criteria.
Q: How important is foreplay to men?
A: Short answer: It’s not.
Longer answer: While guys enjoy foreplay, it’s just not that necessary for us to have a good time.
